Brocky Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 PaulAm sorry to hear this.. please remember you have family here at BMT and you can cry on our shoulders anytime..Ask for advise and / or vent your system.. Quote Brocky Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
57 bcr Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Like they said,Paul. Sorry to hear that. Al Quote IF YOU BOUGHT IT, A TRUCK BROUGHT IT..AND WHEN YOU'RE DONE WITH IT, A TRUCK WILL HAUL IT AWAY!!! Big John Trimble,WRVA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1958 F.W.D. Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Damn Paul......My condolences. We'll hold off on sending out a search party for you. I myself had that very moment about 15 years ago with my first wife- but that was after 2 years of marriage and 5 years together; I can't even begin to imagine the shock you must be in right now. We're all here for you brother. If you need to chew on an ear, please by all means message me and I'll give ya my cell phone number. I'll keep you in my thoughts pal. -Yardo 1 Quote TWO STROKES ARE FOR GARDEN TOOLS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grayhair Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Wow - that's tough. I hope it all works out OK for you. Hang in there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenGiant2 Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 hang in there, hope all works out Quote We the unwilling, Lead by the unqualified, are doing the impossible, for the ungrateful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slpwlker Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 I'm sorry to hear that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 12, 2015 Author Share Posted February 12, 2015 Everybodys kind words and support are really appreciated! Going to a law firm tomorrow and the banks. It was in the planing stages for a while with lawyers and accountants. Found that out when a process server showed up this afternoon. Apparently she wants to experience life with some one from Face Book. She left as the process server was handing me a pile of orderes. She is off the Lake Luzerne by Glens Falls. Got a lot of information on where and with who she is going to be staying with from Google Maps. I guess a owning 50% of 2 successful businesses, 3 homes and a farm isn't enough. Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirtymilkman Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 That's why you hire the investigator. He gets all the dirt on her and it helps your case Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 That sucks. Take the high road and keep your chin up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dogg rescue Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 50% of all marriages end in death at least you got out alive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Loadstar Posted February 12, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted February 12, 2015 Paul, Sorry to hear about your situation....but I'm sure when it's all said and done you'll be better off. The grass is never greener on the other side despite what some people may think. You've gone out of your way to help people on here that you've never met.... That speaks volumes about the kind of person you are..... And people like that always make out in the end..... 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gearhead204 Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Paul: after reading about you news I read some of the responses, ....with rust therapy and our advice....... I can see no good come of this! keep your head up and don't let us fog your brain too bad...... other wise you will have a fleet of rides that would make Superdog jealous! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Green Dash Posted February 12, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted February 12, 2015 It's good to see that those of you that have been dealt the same blow in the past have moved on, and in many cases it seems to have worked out for the better. Let's hope the same holds true for Paul. 4 Quote Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike69mackman Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Sorry to hear this Paul. Hope things work out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarryS Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Lots of good advice and support on here. It is always good to know there is a "rainbow at the end of the storm". Wishing you well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mowerman Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 well aint that a bitch,,,,sometimes chicks are wierd...best of luck,,,hand...bob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 12, 2015 Author Share Posted February 12, 2015 Paul, I am sorry to hear that and if you move to Fork Union maybe I can give you some rust therapy. I am hoping things work out for the best for you.I actually may end up getting rid of 1/2 a dozen trucks and just keep my Marmon and the AC's. I feel at this moment they're a burden and I may if it doesn't go good. If I have to buy out her part of the property in Va. I'll have to find good homes for them , but I won't act rashly till it's all finalized on paper. Paul 2 Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gearhead204 Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 for your sake I hope it don't get ugly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Ike Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Paul,You and I will most likely never meet in person. At my 38 years, you are probably old enough to be my father and frankly, it feels disrespectful to chime in as a result... But I have one thing I'd like you to consider based on some of my NY friends (I grew up in northern Westchester) experience... Please ask your attorney about his/her success in winning successful judgements for men. NYS isn't a friendly place for a conservative male to go through a divorce. You need someone with that on their side considering your businesses, multiple properties in NY and beyond and the fact that she (if I recall) is an RN and not exactly going to have a problem working moving forward. I am so sorry for this loss in your life, your kids, and your grandkids. My family will pray for your protection and healing considering the awful way that this was presented to you. Regards-Ed-Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 2 Quote Ed Smith1957 B85F 1242 "The General Ike" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1958 F.W.D. Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 General Ike has brought up some very good points. I too have several friends (mostly FDNY) that have gone through a divorce and got raked over the coals, except for one who paid the extra money to a lawyer who was familiar with the NYS system and got him a "better than average" deal. Quote TWO STROKES ARE FOR GARDEN TOOLS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Ike Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Paul,You and I will most likely never meet in person. At my 38 years, you are probably old enough to be my father and frankly, it feels disrespectful to chime in as a result... But I have one thing I'd like you to consider based on some of my NY friends (I grew up in northern Westchester) experience... Please ask your attorney about his/her success in winning successful judgements for men. NYS isn't a friendly place for a conservative male to go through a divorce. You need someone with that on their side considering your businesses, multiple properties in NY and beyond and the fact that she (if I recall) is an RN and not exactly going to have a problem working moving forward. I am so sorry for this loss in your life, your kids, and your grandkids. My family will pray for your protection and healing considering the awful way that this was presented to you. Regards-Ed-Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Quote Ed Smith1957 B85F 1242 "The General Ike" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dds92780 Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Sorry to hear about all that, keep your head up and like the others said you have many good friends here to help. Quote Slow and Steady Wins the Race! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bulldog man Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Sorry to hear this Paul .Keeping you in my Prayers Bud Quote You Cant Fix Stupid. But You Can Numb It With A Sledgehammer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 13, 2015 Author Share Posted February 13, 2015 Paul,You and I will most likely never meet in person. At my 38 years, you are probably old enough to be my father and frankly, it feels disrespectful to chime in as a result... But I have one thing I'd like you to consider based on some of my NY friends (I grew up in northern Westchester) experience... Please ask your attorney about his/her success in winning successful judgements for men. NYS isn't a friendly place for a conservative male to go through a divorce. You need someone with that on their side considering your businesses, multiple properties in NY and beyond and the fact that she (if I recall) is an RN and not exactly going to have a problem working moving forward.I am so sorry for this loss in your life, your kids, and your grandkids. My family will pray for your protection and healing considering the awful way that this was presented to you.Regards-Ed-Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkAge meant nothing to give or get good advise. Thanks for the tip, I'll follow up on it. Pau l Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Dash Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 These folks advertise a lot in Pittsburgh but also have NY offices in Albany and Saratoga Springs. I've dealt with real estate lawyers long distance with no trouble but I don't know if that would be practical in your situation.http://cordellcordell.com/ Quote Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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