Dirtymilkman Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Cordell is here in Mn too. Very good reputation here but are mainly if you have children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 13, 2015 Author Share Posted February 13, 2015 These folks advertise a lot in Pittsburgh but also have NY offices in Albany and Saratoga Springs. I've dealt with real estate lawyers long distance with no trouble but I don't know if that would be practical in your situation.http://cordellcordell.com/Closest office in N.Y. is in Albany almost 200 mile from me, but I did call and ask if the could recommend anybody on Long Island. They are sending me a letter of referral. Paul 1 Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vladislav Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Everybodys kind words and support are really appreciated! Going to a law firm tomorrow and the banks. It was in the planing stages for a while with lawyers and accountants. Found that out when a process server showed up this afternoon. Apparently she wants to experience life with some one from Face Book. She left as the process server was handing me a pile of orderes. She is off the Lake Luzerne by Glens Falls. Got a lot of information on where and with who she is going to be staying with from Google Maps. I guess a owning 50% of 2 successful businesses, 3 homes and a farm isn't enough. No words...Try to look at all that just like a part of your life you live regardless anything. Or something like that.The most important thing is to keep yourself.Nothing of pleasure to talk and think about. I know it myself. 1 Quote Никогда не бывает слишком много грузовиков! leversole 11.2012 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 16, 2015 Author Share Posted February 16, 2015 Sitting in the den tonight watching Death Valley Days and I hear the front door open and close. Picked up my Colt and looked around the corner of the door towards the kitchen. My wandering wife is making a sandwich, says hello like nothing happened. Said she was tired and going to bed. WTF??? Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j hancock Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 April's Fool came early????Lucy, you got some 'splaining to do. Quote JimIt doesn't cost anything to pay attention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1958 F.W.D. Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Huh. Maybe she figured the grass wasn't greener on the other side???? Now ya got me wonderin'............... Quote TWO STROKES ARE FOR GARDEN TOOLS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grayhair Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 WTF??? Indeed. Could be an attorney told her not to abandon you and don't leave the property lest her claim be reduced in some way. Document every damn thing you can to protect yourself. And be extra careful what you post on social media or email. If it gets ugly it could all come out in court. I hope things work out for you Sir!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j_martell Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Sitting in the den tonight watching Death Valley Days and I hear the front door open and close. Picked up my Colt and looked around the corner of the door towards the kitchen. My wandering wife is making a sandwich, says hello like nothing happened. Said she was tired and going to bed. WTF???wtf indeed..... Quote Lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Dash Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Sure sounds like she thought things through or someone had a talk with her. It would've been nice if she could've filled you in on the details between bites of the sandwich. She owes you that much. Quote Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 I grabbed the dogs and went to bed. . .Luckily it's not in my nature to hold a grudge being of English / German decent two of the most forgiving peoples on earth. Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gmerrill0516 Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Be careful. Keep a journal in a safe place...what you did, weird stuff she does etc. If you write stuff down it is evidence. If you don't, it is just a story. I'll pray things go in a good direction for you and your marriage.Greg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
masterwelder Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 You need an attorney- now. She served YOU with papers. You must keep every event documented. Time, date, dialogue, any other relevant detail. Everything that happens is evidence. Also please be careful with your guns, you know her story trumps yours. Things can work out, but something is off and you need to proceed with extreme caution and speak to counsel as soon as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 Everything is filmed and or recorded. The house is monitored and recorded on a hard drive and disc. It all has a date and time stamp. Paul Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gmerrill0516 Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 Remind me to never try stealing from you...not that I would. Thieves suck! Sounds like things are covered unless she can somehow disable/destroy the taping. Get council and heed advice. Pray for reconciliation.Best of luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 41chevy Posted February 18, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted February 18, 2015 The last person who stole two Max Wedge III Chryslers and a Alcohol 392 Funnycar motor was my grandson. He is in jail for the next 7 to 10 years plus the time he got while on bail for trying to steal a Mustang in broad daylight from Sayville Ford on the way home from his bail hearing. Steps on my property it will be the last thing he does. I had a person in California jerk me around with a 1941 GM Reel Antenna (worth $2000. I flew out to his house and knocked on his door at 5 a.m.( they are to sleepy to lie at that time) . . .came home with my Antenna and the money for my air fare.When the Town of Oyster Bay was delaying my permit to put new windows in my house there, I waited til the busiest day at the counter for licences and beach passes and went in. I put $1000 in tens on the counter and asked for the clerk in charge of graft payments. Told the girl I've been waiting for 1/2 a year for my permit so I assume you need a bigger kick back. Got my permits in 20 minutes.Papa taught me to take no crap from anybody, it's worked for me since I was 12 pretty well. I'm 62 and still breathing. 7 Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JTFormula Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 Paul,Sorry to hear. I know a couple that were ready to split after many years of being together, the husband suggested couples therapy. That was several years ago and now he says his marriage has never been stronger. Perhaps this might work for you guys too. Good luck and I hope this may work for you. 1 Quote ~ JT Burkard ~ AKA Sweaty Mackwww.jtresto.com www.wickedreputation.netwww.jonathanthomasmotorcars.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
41chevy Posted February 18, 2015 Author Share Posted February 18, 2015 Paul,Sorry to hear. I know a couple that were ready to split after many years of being together, the husband suggested couples therapy. That was several years ago and now he says his marriage has never been stronger. Perhaps this might work for you guys too. Good luck and I hope this may work for you.I suggested that or even with a marriage counselor separately or together. there was no real response. It could have something to do with the Alzheimers patient attacking her last year. There was some very subtle changes in her personality and she did have a concussion from it. Paul Quote "OPERTUNITY IS MISSED BY MOST PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS DRESSED IN OVERALLS AND LOOKS LIKE WORK" Thomas Edison “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’” P.T.CHESHIRE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mack mhe9 Posted February 18, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted February 18, 2015 I wish you the best even if it means working it. But I'd be careful of any home cooked meals. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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