Did I miss something? I re-read this and the only gay reference was Vinny saying that it was "gay" to post the funny pic of Dr. Phil. As in gay = stupid. I don't know why anyone would think Vinny was gay? Unless he has aged overnight, the last time I checked, Vin was 12 years old? No 12 year old should honestly even be thinking about girls in a sexual way yet! My middle son is 12 years old and like Vin he doesn't give a crap about girls, but he loves old trucks. This does not make him gay! This makes him a normal 12 year old boy. The problem is that normal is silent. Weird shit gets our attention and is what makes the news, so then if you don't use your brain, you can fall into the trap of thinking that what you see is the NEW normal. It is a sad commentary on our society that we even wonder about kids if they are gay or not. I agree with David that the world we throw our kids into is totally different and much more difficult than it was when the majority of us grew up. That is why my wife and I homeschool our kids. It may not be this way everywhere, but at least in my corner of the world, the best thing I can do is refuse to buy into the bulls*&t that I see coming out of our local schools about sexual orientation, lack of parental discipline, animal rights, socialist ideas, etc. I may fail miserably as a parent, but it won't be from sitting on the sidelines and not taking an active role. It tears me up when I see young boys that don't have dads around to help them know what is really normal and what is not, and protect them from the way our society hands out low self esteem if they are not rich and at 12 dating a hot blonde. The last thing Rob wanted when he posted that photo at the start of this thread was to upset anyone, especially Vinny. If Vinny's feeling are hurt, well, that is a mistake on his part. As someone that has frequented this site as much as Vinny has, and been the giver and taker of jokes in the past, he should know that everyone on here appreciates what he adds to this crazy clown show and no one would intentionally drive him away. Sorry for the rant!